On October 21st, 2012, our father, William Harrer, lost his battle with lymphoma. Through the last years of his life, we (his five kids) blogged about what was happening. It tells a story of how one family dealt with the end of their father's life. We thought if it can help a family with similar struggles, he would very much want that, and so we are making our blog public. You can read Dad's obit on the page "Dad's Life in a Nutshell" and see for yourself what an amazing life he had.

Tuesday, May 1, 2012
May 1, 2012 Update
Dad saw Dr Rose today according to Dr Rose's notes. Dr Rose could see dad's ear drum, I believe, there was scant discharge suctioned, the ear canal was opened.
Monday, April 30, 2012
April 30, 2012 Update
According to Dr Rose's patient notes Dad was seen to day for pain in his left ear hurts and swollen. A wick was placed in dad's left ear with ciprodex. Dad's ear canal is swollen shut.
Tuesday, April 24, 2012
April 24th
He had his third shot this morning. His hgb is up to 9.4
and his HCT is up to 27.9. Both of these numbers are improving.
It’s hard to say if he has a substantial amount of improved energy. He
did go out dancing last night until 10 pm and was at the Dr.’s office at 8:30.
This is working out to be a pretty good deal for me too, as he buys me
breakfast after the shot. I can tell you he’s got a pretty good appetite…
for breakfast anyway.
John
John
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
April 10th
Saw Dad this morning for his 2nd EPO shot. His
numbers were up a bit. Just wanted to let those who were concerned about
his leg know that he went dancing with Nedra last night. He said he was
out of shape and had to take a break, but they had fun. He did say he
thought his leg was getting better.
HCT - 24.5, HGB - 8.2
HCT - 24.5, HGB - 8.2
Thursday, March 15, 2012
March 15th
I just got back from Dad’s appointment with his kidney
doctor. Good news - his kidney function based on creatinine level
improved slightly. The doctor didn’t have the ultrasound results.
We chatted a bit as the doctor explained there was still some concern about
protein in his urine. The doctor had done some tests to try and determine
why but had not come up with anything definitive.
Dad’s BP was 158/79 with a pulse of 60. The creatinine
went from 2.9 to 2.4 (1.6 is high normal). Of the proteins found in Dad’s
urine he said none of them were “abnormal” but that they were 3 times higher
than they should be. I asked if it could be from muscle breakdown and Dad
asked if diet played a role. Both answers came back “no”. The
kidney has a barrier where it can filter the blood to clean it, but should
leave the protein behind (to stay in the blood). Dad’s barrier isn’t
doing its job and the doctor is looking to see if he can do anything to improve
that situation.
As we were wrapping up, the doctor asked about how Dad was
feeling in general. Dad came by the store for a visit yesterday and he
spoke about his lack of energy interest in doing things (although he went to
the community concert by himself last night and Kyle’s baseball game the
night before). Anyway, I brought this up to the doctor and mentioned his
anemia. The doctor then talked about treatment with a drug called EPO, a
hormone secreted by the kidneys to stimulate red blood cell production.
Red blood cells carry oxygen. I have asked Dad’s regular doctor
(Nichols), his PA (Trevor), and cancer specialist (Mokabadi) about using this
drug and they all said Dad was not “there” yet. While not encouraging the
direction, I’ve wanted Dad to try this simply for the improved quality of life
I thought it might provide. This doctor explained that there were risks
such as stroke, if his body makes too many red blood cells, and tumor growth,
which is why Dr. Mokabadi wanted to do more tests. Dad would have to get
a shot every two weeks and have his blood checked every interval. I tried
to stay neutral in advising Dad as we asked about the side effects and
negatives to this approach. There really didn’t seem to be many, besides
the inconvenience of the shot frequency and blood tests. If there is some
underlying condition they have not discovered the EPO may aggravate that
condition.
Even if that is the case, I still believe this is the correct
course of action. Dad is slowing down both mentally and physically and I
believe it is due in part to the lack of oxygen. I’ve seen him climb the
hill to tennis and have to stop halfway. He mentioned that he parked in
front of our store to walk to the concert and the walk back exhausted him.
This is a non-invasive treatment that may offer some benefit.
They were not able to start the shots today. They have to
get approval from Dad’s insurance carrier. We will keep you posted on the
progress.
Monday, December 26, 2011
Dec 26, 2011 Update on Dad
Hope
you all had a Merry Christmas. We missed you.
When
we went to breakfast on Dad’s birthday he wasn’t wearing his hearing aids. He
said it was because his ears were bothering him. Tom tried to call his ear
doctor from the restaurant, but she was gone for the holiday. Dad seemed a
little down and we attributed it to him not being able to take part in any
conversations.
That
night at his house, he again looked a little down. The house was nice and
festive and he had the dinner going. You all spoke with him and probably
noticed he was distracted.
On
Christmas morning Tom called and said Dad ears were bothering him so much he
really didn’t want to come over. Tom convinced him to go to emergency were they
diagnosed an ear infection and prescribed some antibiotics. Dad did go over to
Tom’s for a good Christmas meal. Dad will see his regular ear doctor on
Tuesday. I haven’t spoken with Tom or Dad and I don’t know if he is feeling
better today.
We
have plans to have Dad’s anemia and kidneys checked in January. We’re not sure
what options will be available, but we need to get a status update. We will do
our best to keep you updated.
Love you all,
John
Monday, July 25, 2011
July 25, 2011 Update
Dad
had asked Tom to call Dr. Chang, the urologist, for a consult on why he was
peeing so much. Tom took dad today and they performed an ultrasound. There
were no major revelations. Dad has some blockage of the kidneys and Dr. Chang
ordered a test for that. He is also going to do a urine retention test. Have
Dad drink a lot of fluids in Dr. Chang’s office and then they will measure how
much Dad pee’s and the strength of the stream. That test is tomorrow. There is
also some blood work being done to determine the state of his kidneys. Dad’s
been doing well the last couple of months. He was scheduled to do a kidney
follow-up with Dr. Nichols in August, so the timing of this is about
right.
That’s it for now. Hope everyone is well,
John
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